God has given prayer as a means of grace, to help believers
cultivate their relationship with Him. If the Bible is essential as spiritual nourishment,
prayer is indispensable as breath. God talks to man through the Bible and man
in turn talks to God through prayer. As those created in the image of God,
people have the capacity to interact with Him. But because of fall, only those recreated
in Christ Jesus have access through prayer.
Prayer is a spiritual exercise which requires a lot of
discipline. It is both communing and communicating with God. The Holy Spirit is
the enabling agent. Proper understanding of the Word of God is essential to pray
effectively. The Bible teaches a lot about prayer and has many model prayers.
HOW NOT TO PRAY:
It is important to note that in Matthew 6:5-8, Christ
teaches, how not to pray. Prayer is not to
be offered in order to receive men’s approval. Thoughtless words and repetitions
are to be avoided. In the prayer that Jesus taught, He addresses God as Father.
There is no repetition of Father, Lord, God or Master. No one posture is
advocated.
WHEN PRAYER IS INEFFECTIVE:
Sin in life: Psalm 66:18, “If I regard iniquity in my heart,
the Lord will not hear me.” King Saul was
full of jealousy, hatred and malice toward David. Yet he prayed to God but was
not heard. (I Samuel 28:6)
Disobedience to God’s Word: Jeremiah 37:2 says, Zedekiah, his
servants and the people did not obey the words of the Lord spoken through
Jeremiah the prophet. Yet, in the next verse, Zedekiah asks Jeremiah, “Please
pray to the Lord our God on our behalf.” Such prayer was absolutely useless.
Wrong motives: James 4:3, “You ask and do not receive,
because you ask with wrong motives, so that you may spend it on your
pleasures.”
Absence of faith: Mark 11:24, “Therefore I say to you, all
things for which you pray and ask, believe that you have received them, and
they will be granted you.”
WHAT IS PRAYER?
Prayer is humble opening of one's whole being to God and communing
with Him. Prayer is communicating in silence or through spoken words. Prayer is
expression of love for God, praise for His glory/greatness, appreciation for
His goodness/grace, thanksgiving for blessings received and presenting ones
needs and the needs of others to God in faith.
HOW SHOULD ONE PRAY?
Prayer should be offered in an attitude of humility, with
God as the ultimate object of all focus and trust.
Prayer should be offered to God the Father, even as taught by
the Lord Jesus Christ. This is a privilege for those enjoy this grace relationship.
Prayer should be offered through Christ the mediator. I
Timothy 2:5, “For there is one God, and one mediator also between God and men,
the man Christ Jesus.”
Prayer should always include worship. “Through Him then, let
us constantly offer up a sacrifice of praise to God, that is, the fruit of lips
that give thanks to His name.” (Hebrews
13:15.) Praise and thanksgiving together form worship.
Prayer should include confession of known sins in life, as they
hinder fellowship with God and effectiveness in praying. (Isaiah 59:2)
ANSWERS TO PRAYER:
God always answers prayers, in one of three ways. There are
direct answers, denied answers and delayed answers. Prayer should be offered in
full submission to God’s will. The Lord Jesus Christ prayed in the garden of Gethsemane in total submission. He
prayed, “My Father, if it is possible, let this cup to pass from me, yet not as
I will, but as You will.” (Matthew 26:39) God, the all knowing Father, knows what
is best for His children. In great wisdom, He withholds what is not according
to His will and so is not good for His own. His will only is desirable and His
timing always perfect.
There are promises such as, “If you abide in Me, and My
words abide in you, ask whatever you wish, and it will be done to you.” They need
to be balanced with verses like, “If we ask anything according to His will, He
hears us.” God delights in answering prayers which are offered in total submission
to His will.
GOAL OF PRAYER:
The first three requests of the Lord’s Prayer should be the
goal of every prayer. God’s name be hallowed. His kingdom come and His will be
done on earth as it is in heaven. Any prayer should focus on God’s will,
purpose and glory being accomplished.
APPLICATION:
We need to be disciplined and grow in the spiritual exercise
of prayer.
Humble trust and desire for God’s glory are most important.
Prayer should be offered in total submission to God will.
God’s Word should govern the content of prayer.